Sunday, April 14, 2013

Man Befriends His Brother's Killer


                Just over 20 years ago, Anthony Colon’s brother was shot and killed by three men.  Unarmed and unable to defend himself, he was shot thirteen times.  Colon and his brother had a very close relationship.  He remembers always being protected by his brother and never having to fight his battles alone, if at all.  Therefore, after his brother’s death, Colon experienced extreme grief, which mainly manifested itself in a great anger.  This rage slowly began to consume his entire life, until he decided that he had let this event control him for long enough, turned to religion, and transformed that anger into love and forgiveness. 

            Due to a stroke of immense luck, while visiting a friend in prison, Anthony Colon saw one of his brother’s murderers.  He quickly approached this man, Michael Rowe, and forgave him.  Rowe showed his extreme remorse for the murder and the two men became friends.  Colon visited Rowe regularly, and Colon even attended Rowe’s parole hearing, vouching for him along the way.  Rowe was recently released from prison and the men work together at Exodus Transitional Community, an organization that helps people returning from prison reenter society. 

            In my opinion the amount of openness and acceptance that both men showed is astounding.  The fact that these two could work together for the common goal of helping people is truly inspiring.

3 comments:

  1. This is INCREDIBLE! This man is showing everything that Jesus Christ taught us while he was on Earth! He has been able to not only forgive the man who killed his brother, but also befriend him as well. I know that I could never do this. I do not know if I could ever find it in myself to forgive the person who was responsible for the death of someone I loved, mainly just because I could never get that loved on back. What this man has done is absolutely incredible, and I can't believe that he would even help this man who killed his brother to get out of jail. I could see the old half hearted "I forgive you.", but this man has gone above and beyond that. I wish there were more people like Anthony Colon in the world, because we could sure use more of them.

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    1. Or just more people that wouldn't murder and blow up bombs during marathons... Some people make me sick.

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  2. I think that this is amazing.I can tell you one thing for sure: I would probably not forgive a murderer if he killed one of my siblings, parents, or anyone I'm close with. For him to forgive this man is truly incredible, and people should admire him greatly for this as I can only imagine how hard that was for him to do that.

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